An Exercise in Subtly Confrontational Self-Justification
The football book is strangely uninspiring, yet oddly compelling. Even title raises questions. The Dear England title currently names a hit theatrical production, an forthcoming television program, and a national address written by the manager in 2021.
This version of Dear England isn’t formally related to those. It stands as an anomaly in the Dear England Multiverse, a volume about guidance: a classically dry elite football manager subject that the author follows persistently, using the words “leader”, “guiding” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across 336 pages.
Questions Raised
“What defines a leader? What do leaders do? What insights do leaders have?” Southgate inquires early on, establishing his stall, but declining to address “How are leaders?”, themes presumably reserved for a future volume.
Beyond that, this publication features a notable absence at its core. It’s a venture in passive-aggressive self-justification, in almost-but-not-quite expressing the actual thing, hopping adeptly from unsettled score to fresh pain across a series of data visualizations, management jargon and digressions about historical figures.
Engagement
Going through the book is like eavesdropping on your family members having a mannered but intensely emotional argument in the nearby area while you’re attempting to pay attention on a corporate presentation titled “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also difficult to disengage, as the author keeps drifting near to an issue you genuinely want to discover, before unexpectedly changing tack.
Revelations
There are inevitably controversial revelations in books of this nature, explained by the rapt obsession with leading the national team. The most notable ones encompass: the manager made up his mind he was absolutely going to step down as England manager after spectators hurled cups at him at the tournament; he came very close to abandoning the game at mid-match against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were subjected to racism; he introduced the approach of dedicated restart experts and everyone in the top division is now following his lead; he has now abandoned his love for football, a startling admission briefly included in a brief section at the final part.
Leading England through a era of anger, hope, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a brutal ordeal. The scars are clearly still fresh.
Generic Content
In other sections, the content is overrun with an robotic linguistic mush of standard leadership chat. Copies of this book were provided with critics under non-disclosure agreements ahead of launch, likely out of apprehension someone might reveal that “challenging discussions can, by their inherent quality, be difficult”, that you should always think before you act, that management occurs where transformation intersects with understanding.
Emotional Core
There is nevertheless authentic emotion within. Leading England through a time of rage, hope, upheaval and confinement was a harsh journey. The scars are clearly still fresh, though conveyed in a terminology-heavy reinterpretation of the classic leader narrative: why I was actually right about each issue from the start.
Specific Examples
Even publication’s initial chapter, Trojan-horsed as thrilling accounts of the championship match of the tournament, is completely dedicated to how effective the manager in fact was at player changes (the primary common complaint revolving around he was not good at substitutes). Later, he delves into great depth about how he oversaw the Euros final of 2021 impeccably – notably the unsuccessful tiebreaker – because he complied with a established procedure, which suggests that introducing youthful talents at the last moment to take the crucial shot of their careers was reasonable and accurate.
This was confirmed by a successful shootout against Switzerland four years later after a fixture where England spent 120 minutes looking as if they were striving to put on a jumper the inside out. “The control we exerted in that tiebreaker was simply thrilling,” Southgate notes, while equating the display to US Navy Seals eliminating a notorious figure. Oh Gareth.
Missed Opportunities
When we come near to a disclosure, Southgate retreats from identifying individuals or sharing the substance. We discover there were difficult England individuals who insisted on more focus, maybe because they were indulged during the beginning of their professional journeys. But as you lean forward hopefully, the author is quickly diverting into a topic called a leadership concept, which claims that as opposed to a collection of attributes or values, organizational ethos is in fact an element that is formed by, gah, please, no more.
Strengths
Within the stronger bits are when he writes about the incremental process of fostering fortitude in young people, or how he tried to articulate Englishness more clearly and more positively than any other figure in the spotlight. Best of all, there is a truly compelling description of that distressing evening in the Bulgarian capital where England’s players of color were subjected to vile treatment (and subsequently defended vigorously by their manager).
Heartfelt Conclusion
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